The perfect girl as seen by Bearry

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been dating here and there, been in a couple of failed relationships and got lost in unrequited love. Yes,there were times that I've unknowingly set myself up for disappointment. But when you spend most of your time by yourself, you start picturing out the perfect girl.

This girl has been in my head and she constantly dazzles me. I'm not sure if I know what she looks like, nor do I know if I've even met her in real life. But for now, she remains as a figment of my imagination. 

Nonetheless, I would like to paint you a picture on how she’s like.

She’s loud and speaks her mind.

As a guy who talks a lot, I want a girl who could outtalk me. Someone who I can have endless conversations and then realize how much time we've spent just talking to each other. I want a girl who gets me into random arguments to the point that we’d laugh why we’d had such arguments in the first place. She would ask a lot of questions and she may never even believe my answers and comes to a point that she thinks I’m overreacting.

She’s got her eye on the prize.

She knows what she wants and manages to get it. She’s a crowd favorite and knows how to charm her way out of things. She’s competitive. Everyone knows her for her special talent, whether it’s cooking up something yummy, singing her heart out or writing her next blog. She definitely knows how to be productive and how to win everyone’s heart. 

She’s into my type of humor.
She knows what’s up, she speaks sarcasm and she’ll always be thinking of ways to make me laugh. She loves situation comedy and we’ll probably debate on whether Friends or How I met your mother is the most epic of all shows. She thinks my jokes are corny but she’ll laugh anyway (and did I mention, how I’d love to make her laugh?). She throws punchlines that are too legend- wait-for- it – dary. 

She’s hyper and she's the life of any party.

As a guy who would probably be diagnosed with ADHD, I love the way she gets excited. The way she’d call me with the most sweetest tone that gets me all jumpy. She knows how to party and she's not afraid to play it stupid and act without a care in the world. She doesn't need alcohol to have a good time and she's in control when she's out of control. 

Now, I know what you're thinking; yes she may not exist. But with seven billion people in the world, as cliché as it might sound, who knows? 


One thing is for sure though, the next girl will be worth all the heartbreaks.